They are lucky that they are tall and muscular, unlike Italian expats here.
This is one thing Italian men should learn: get to the gym!
But actually, I do have a LOOONG term Italian partner. But we are libertines, and we like to have fun with others occasionally. I guess when searching a “sex friend” I can overlook the poor pick-up style.
” Then one of these Italian guys said, “Well, it is really no fun if the girl hands you her undies after the first few conversations.” I have even tried to take matters into my own hands and try to “drive” the game from my side.But as soon as I try to be more aloof and elusive, the Aussie guy just loses interest, as his general laziness doesn’t allow him to plan ahead and enjoy the chase. In the end, all men want the same thing everywhere in the world.” (I guess that many women must be attracted to “gay men” then… I am loving life here in Perth; the ocean, the blue skies, the vast horizons.And since I arrived, the food culture has really improved.But what we truly feel–what we truly –is heavily influenced by our cultural indoctrination and life experiences.
What an Italian might call “a fun game,” an Australian or American might simply find boring and annoying.
The important thing is that she’s an Italian girl in her 30’s who has been living in Australia for 10 years, and she’s STILL trying to work out the rather large cultural gaps when it comes to dating, courtship, and social protocols in general. Her situation gives her a unique perspective that, in my opinion, is very instructive for foreign men in Italy hoping to “get lucky” with Italian girls.
Pay attention, fellas, because we are doing it all wrong! Canada, and other “Anglo” countries, probably including Northern Europeans, as well.
It’s actually because we find those types of games a bit silly, not to mention dishonest on some level.
Oh sure, we play those games, too, when we are in (high school).
Yes, we Yanks and Aussies are more pragmatic, for better or worse. I guess for an American or Australian, “normal” for man is rough and careless and…masculine.