If she’s becoming a hot mess, she might just be angling to be rescued.4.
If your girlfriend is the most singular person you’ve ever met, she might be a rare flower. She Will Be Unclear About Her Past She’s wicked clever and not just a little bit wicked herself, and she seems to have had a thousand past lives and adventures that make you wonder whether she might not be lying about her age.
With equal ease she moves seamlessly between taking charge and appearing to defer to your lead, all while anticipating your needs in a way that seems unrealistic outside a episode.
On the other hand, your sociopath girlfriend thinks you look ugly when you cry.
If you’re crying because she’s hurt you, she will not apologize. She may even punch you in the face to give you something to cry about. Be careful what you say in anger, because she has an unsettling tendency to take sarcasm or figures of speech literally.
Maybe you’ve noticed that she has a cold indifference to one or more family members? You probably don’t really wish that the guy who cut you off were dead, so you should clarify that for her. She Will Be Hard to Describe Is your girlfriend vaguely ethnic?
Does she have an accent that’s hard to put a finger on?
Consequently, you can sometimes pick up on “tells” that the sociopath is overthinking what should be a natural reaction.
For example, sociopaths frequently hesitate before responding in a conversation.
It’s often difficult to interact and compromise with people, especially if they have vastly different personalities, different backgrounds, and different values.
Now, imagine dating someone whose brain is wired to see people as chess pieces and life as a game. Unless you’re a trained psychologist, you’re not likely to recognize the signs: low empathy, no guilt, shallow emotions, failure to conform to social norms, manipulative, impulsive, narcissistic, without a conscience.
Like Goldie Hawn in the movie , she will reveal personal information strategically, often to create a false sense of intimacy or trust: “You were a nerd in high school? If her most emotional reactions feel like a slip of the mask, you may have reason for concern.3.