You can’t let these nasty thoughts of your partner going back to their ex.Sure they share a kid, but having children does not guarantee a healthy marriage.Since you’ve learned that you don’t have to compete when dating someone with kids, the next logical step is to learn to share his or her time.
The secret is to believe in yourself and that you can make it happen.
And most of all, have faith that love is stronger than any other feeling.
If you trust them enough (see rule #1), you can get into details about your fears. Let them reassure you that it’s OK and you can still go on dates.
Try to understand what they have in mind when you raise such a discussion and mind their body language. They probably still thinking about it and they are not clear about dating.
Kids needs to know that they only have one mother, and that’s not you.
It’s their biological mother that has given birth to them.If your partner’s children are younger than 10 years old you will have better chance to be liked.Kids are more approachable at this tender age and you can be their new friend. No matter how sweet it might sound, you need to stop it right away.Men and women with children are dating because they want to move on with their lives. They are not dating you because they want to feel free, or get revenge.They are looking for someone to make them forget what it was like to have children with someone you can’t stand. That’s not how men and women with kids think when they are dating. If you have the same serious feelings about them, then let go the bad thoughts and think of happiness with the person you enjoy spending most of your time with.Dating someone with kids can be tricky, but not impossible.