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I don’t know whether he’ll turn out to be a catch or a cad, but at least he’ll know the kind of mama bear he’s dealing with. E-mail questions to Steven at [email protected](unfortunately not all questions can be answered).

But, is flirting with a younger gay guy the same as flirting with someone your own age? You don't have to pull out a new bag of tricks to snag a newbie.

n my role as a Dating and Relationship Coach I see a number of different clients come through my doors.

Just keep in mind that there is almost a 20 year age difference, so while he's rockin' to Taylor Swift, you're humming The Commodores.

But, generation aside, if he shows interest then he's definitely digging your vibe.

) Of course, no such list could leave off Donald Trump and his current wife, Melania, 24 years his junior.

If nothing else, this list makes clear that one answer doesn’t fit all and that this isn’t a same-sex issue.

Have a talk with Tim, adult to adult (and he is an adult, even if he’s still your baby).

If you approach it like a mama bear trying to save her cub, you risk pushing him further into his boyfriend’s arms.

Try not to judge or psychoanalyze him — that means don’t mention your theory about a father figure.

It’s fine to explain that you don’t understand the relationship and even that it worries you. With your husband (and Tim’s father) gone only three years, I can only imagine you’re both still grieving.

“Joseph” met his husband, who’s 14 years his senior, when the younger man was 21; they’ve now been together for 27 years. You fall in love with who that person is, not their age.” Meanwhile, Carl Sandler, who runs Age Appropriate, a blog about intergenerational dating, told me: “In the gay community, it is very common for younger and older men to date.